Saturday, May 13, 2017

Types of Child Counseling

There are many effective types of child counseling, including psychotherapy. This type of therapy allows the counselor to have therapeutic interactions and conversations, not only with children, but with their families as well.

The approaches vary when giving psychotherapy, as do the intervention techniques used. In many cases several approaches are combined to treat a child in need of counseling.

Here are the various types of psychotherapy often used on children:

Dialectical Behavior
Interpersonal
Psychodynamic
Cognitive
Family

Older children often benefit from Dialectal Behavior Therapy because it teaches them how to take responsibility for any problems they have. This is often the method of choice for any adolescent that feels suicidal on a regular basis. Patients are taught healthy ways to deal with negative emotions, no matter how intense they are. Individual and group therapy sessions are often used in this type of counseling.

A short treatment program often includes interpersonal therapy. This is the method used to counsel children suffering from depression. However, it is used to treat many other conditions as well. In this type of therapy the counselor takes a close look at how a child is affected by interpersonal events in their life. Problem relationships between the patient and other children or adults are used in interpersonal therapy to teach patients to manage their own emotions.

Many counseling sessions with children involve psychodynamic therapy. This type of therapy places an emphasis on the feelings of the patient. It is used to determine why a child is behaving the way they are. Behavior patterns are identified and they are taught how to deal with their innermost emotions and conflict.  Counseling that uses psychodynamic therapy is extremely intense counseling in which children meet with their therapist many times each week.

Cognitive behavior therapy is also a technique used with children. Those suffering from anxiety or chronic bad moods often benefit from this type of counseling. Children are taught the proper ways to identify patterns of thought that are harmful to them. They are also taught how to think appealing, positive and healthy thoughts.

When the whole family needs to be involved in a child's treatment, counselors work with children and their families to ensure that everyone treats everyone else in a fair and kind way.

Conclusion

Children who need counseling are treated with the utmost respect and concern. Each child's case is handled confidentially.

Learn more about counseling for children at L&B Counseling in Charlotte, NC.

Monday, November 7, 2016

Counseling Services for Children

Counseling can be as beneficial to children as it can for adults and it can help them develop healthy behaviors and coping skills. In some cases, counseling can even prevent serious behavior problems in life.  If you have any familiarity with the counseling profession, then you acknowledge that childhood can be a very stressful period of life for many people.  The therapists at L&B Counseling are here to help and provide counseling services for children and families.  Counseling can help children deal with many different stressful life situations, from coping with learning disabilities to adjusting to their parents’ divorce and getting along with stepparents.

If you are concerned about your child’s behavior or perceived emotional state, there is no wrong reason to seek counseling.  The following are just some of the reasons that children go to counseling:

·         Physical or sexual abuse
·         Bullying
·         Learning difficulties
·         Parents’ separation or remarriage
·         Death or illness of a close family member
·         Other traumatic or very stressful family situation, such as a parent going to jail or a military parent being deployed
·         Physical symptoms (such as headaches or stomachaches) for which no physical cause can be found and therefore which might be physical manifestations of emotional stress

What Counseling Is Not

Counseling is not an attempt to change or fix who a child is.  It is not about labeling the child a problem and isolating him or her from normal activities of childhood.  It is not like taking a misbehaving child out of class and sending him to the principal’s office.  As Robert Brault said, “A child seldom needs a good talking to as a good listening to.” The purpose of counseling for children is to be a process by which a child learns healthy behaviors and learns to advocate for himself or herself.  It focuses on setting and achieving goals, and not on making the child feel ashamed or on assigning blame and deciding which adults are and are not responsible for the child’s troublesome behavior.

Play Therapy for Young Children

Some forms of therapy used in counseling for adults, such as talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy, require a high level of verbal skills and sophisticated thought which young children do not possess.  Therefore, one of the most common techniques used in counseling for children ages 11 and younger is play therapy.  The therapist observes the fictional scenarios that children act out while they play and uses this as a starting point to gain insight into the stresses and fears that the child is not yet able to articulate.  In addition to the diagnostic applications of play therapy, this type of therapy can also be used to gradually desensitize children to situations that are a source of anxiety and stress for them.

Warning Signs

If you sense that your child is suffering from emotional problems but your child does not want to talk to you about them, you are not alone.  It is very common for children not to want to open up to their parents about things that are bothering them.  If you see your child exhibiting worrisome behaviors, it is a good idea to bring your child to a counselor.  These warning signs include:
·         Lack of interest in school or change for the worse in academic performance
·         Self-harming behavior such as cutting
·         Marked change in eating habits
·         Persistent aggressive and violent behavior

L&B Counseling Can Help


At L&B counseling, our counselors treat each child as a person and an individual.  We understand that there are no one size fits all counseling services.

Monday, August 22, 2016

The Need for Family Counseling

Family life іѕ nоt аlwауѕ thе ѕаmе fоr mаnу people and families. That’s whу many people nееd family counseling. Family counseling aims tо mаkе relationships bеtwееn members оf thе family better. In mаnу cases, іt іѕ nоt јuѕt оnе member whо wіll attend thе sessions, but thе entire family. Thіѕ іѕ еѕресіаllу true fоr families thаt mау bе undergoing struggles thаt mау require drastic сhаngеѕ tо thе family unit.

Rеgаrdlеѕѕ оf thе issues families аrе facing іn life, parents nееd tо handle matters іn thе bеѕt wау thеу can. Thеу аrе responsible fоr ensuring thаt thеіr children hаvе а positive relationship wіth thеіr siblings аnd аrе аlѕо respectful оf thеіr father аnd mother. Thеіr main focus ѕhоuld bе maintaining peace wіthіn thе family moving forward.

Family counseling covers аll kinds оf difficulties experienced bу parents аnd thеіr children. Counseling fоr children аlѕо addresses а lot оf issues ranging frоm problems оn communication wіth children, balancing household аnd work responsibilities, misbehavior аt home аnd іn school tо childhood traumas, conflicts аmоng siblings, family violence, alcoholism, substance abuse аnd parenting issues.

Family counseling session thаt аlѕо accommodates counseling fоr children аrе uѕuаllу scheduled bу а member оf thе unit аѕ аn effort tо mаkе thеm hаvе а bеttеr relationship аmоng themselves. It іѕ uѕuаllу ѕоmеоnе frоm thе іnѕіdе thаt mаkеѕ thе effort tо mаkе thеіr relationship bеttеr bесаuѕе оnе саnnоt bе forced tо join thе sessions іf оnе dоеѕ nоt wаnt to, еѕресіаllу adults. Children саn bе brought tо thе therapy bу thеіr parents, but ѕоmе adults mау bе unwilling tо attend thе sessions. Mаnу adults view family counseling аѕ а weakness whісh thеу dо nоt wаnt tо tаkе part of.

Onе оf thе benefits оf attending therapy, mоѕt especially, оur counseling fоr children sessions іѕ thе effort thаt wіll bе visible tо save relationships аmоng thе member’s оf а family. Whеn thе оthеr members ѕее thе effort thаt оthеrѕ put іntо thеіr unit, thеу аrе lіkеlу tо feel loved аnd moved bу thе effort. In cases whеrе оnе member іѕ thе оnе affecting thе unit, thе effort wіll bе appreciated bу thе others. Anоthеr benefit оf attending thеѕе session’s іѕ resolving аnу deep seated issues thаt mау bе present bеtwееn оr аmоng thе people іn thе families.

Family counselors аt L&B Counseling аrе trained tо check thе nuances аmоng thе members оf еасh unit іn order tо hеlр resolve issues thаt аnу family members mіght bе living wіth fоr а while.

Our family counseling sessions саn mаkе а family feel closer tо еасh оthеr аnd hеlр thеm understand whу еvеrу member mау hаvе acted thаt wау previously. It wіll аlѕо bring ѕоmе closure tо ѕоmе issues whісh mау hаvе stayed bеtwееn members fоr ѕо long. Our counseling fоr children іѕ nоt left behind. It wіll eradicate whаtеvеr issue уоu соuld hаvе bееn facing wіth уоur kids before.

Friday, April 22, 2016

Family Time, The Life Serum For Family Bonding

One of the most common traits of families that end with breakup is that 99% of those families do not give importance to family time. When counseling couples, family counselors come across this very frequently.

Experienced marriage counseling experts always make it a point to recommend their clients to mark a time for family time in their daily timetable. What you do during that family time does not really matter as long as all the family members are together for that time. Healthy families have quality family time daily and such families seldom have a need to approach a counselor or a psychologist because they have all the tensions and stress eased out during the family time in a natural and healthy fashion.

It is also noted that families with poor bonding often have disturbed children. Parents that look for counseling for children are mostly from families that have no or very little family time. There is certainly a clear pattern or correlation between family time and breakups.

It does not matter whether you are newly married or you have been married for several years now. If you have not been giving importance to family time all along then it is imperative that you review your lifestyle closely and allocate time for your family. Ideally, ‘family time’ should happen every day. If there are practical difficulties in achieving this goal try to make it at least twice a week.

It should not be surprising to see the correlation between family time and drop in breakup rate. Couples breakup only when they cannot stand the company of each other. Unfortunately, in many situations, this gap is an induced gap. First couples stop spending time because they are too busy with their work life and therefore they are unable to give time for family. This over a period of time becomes a normal thing and the couple stops missing the company of each other. This further moves to a stage whereby even if there is a chance to spend time together, the couple start disliking the company. Do not think that this is a farfetched example, this is what is happening in most of the families today.

Wives either working or otherwise looking for counseling for women place this as a frequent complaint to the counselor. They would not have had quality family time for years but they merely co-exist under the same roof.

Family time helps the couples get into the other person’s world and it helps them understand what is going on in the other person’s world. This in turn helps the partners understand why the other person is behaving in the way that they are. When such an understanding is gained then the tolerance level will also be boosted between couples.

If you are in need of professional counseling services in Charlotte, NC, contact the experts at L&B Counseling.


Building and retaining a healthy family involves ongoing efforts. The least one could do to keep the relationship enjoyable and to keep the love burning is to have quality time with your family daily or at least twice in a week. 

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Hiring the Right Counselor

At L&B Counseling, we take great pride in the fact that we help people find the right kind of counseling. The problem for most people, though, is finding the right counselor. The techniques offered may be sound, but if the person hired is not compatible or does not work well with the individual in question then it can be a strenuous and difficult process.

How should you go about hiring a counselor, then? What kind of attributes need to stand out to ensure that both patient and counselor can work together in the long-term?

Dedicated

When a counselor and a patient work together, it can be easier for a counselor to get involved if they feel a genuine connection to the problem or to the person that is involved. If you want to make sure this is the kind of treatment that is received, then you should always look to find a counselor who you can see has a genuine connection or interest in the field of issues that you are dealing with.
Working with a dedicated counselor in that specific field can be useful for those who feel they need a genuine specialist involved in counseling.

Always Available

It is important to find a counseling service that is available when you need them. Most counselors realize that the standard 9am to 5pm may not work for most clients. Adjusting hours around peoples work schedules is necessary. Offering hours that are convenient for clients may begin at 7:00am or 8:00am and many offer sessions into the evening until 8:00pm or 9:00pm. Trying to schedule a family counseling session can be difficult by trying to get all the family members together at one time. Make sure you find a counselor who offers hours that are convenient to your schedule.

Appropriate

You have to hire a counselor who fits with your own requirements and hiring one who comes without a background or experience in what you are suffering from is a waste of time. Similar to point #1, try and appoint a counselor that you know has a list of experiences in this in the past; they cannot provide references but they will be able to give you an idea of if they know the kind of problems you could be facing.

Patient

Any good counselor will understand that getting to the end of the process and ensuring that you are happy with what is going on will take time; this means putting in the commitment and effort starting from today to change the facets and the facts of the individuals life. A counselor won’t be able to tell you what to do or make decisions for you, but they can help you find the right answers for yourself.
Don’t work with a counselor who proclaims they can help you get to the conclusion in an instant – it’s just not possible.


Take each of these attributes and apply them to your search – you might find that now you know what to expect from a counselor that you can find it easier to locate the right one for you. It will take time and commitment, sure, but it’ll be much better in the long-term to work with a counselor that you know and can trust.